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		<title>Easing the Back-to-School Butterflies</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Aug 2010 18:37:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dena</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In some families, it&#8217;s hard to say who&#8217;s more nervous about the first day of school&#8211; the kids or the parents!  New beginnings are exciting but kids and their parents may also feel apprehensive, especially  if your child is attending a new school. You know that these jitters will pass, but doing a little advanced preparation will help put everyone at ease. These 10 tips from <a href="http://www.hitchedmag.com/article.php?id=1040" target="_blank">Hitched</a> will help make the first day of school easier.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">1. Scout it out. Before school starts,  take a walk or drive by the school and let your child see the route you  both will be traveling each morning and afternoon.  Point out the  school office, the library and any other areas of the school that you  can see from the street.  Try guessing which classroom your child may be  in and talk about what he or she may be learning this upcoming school  year.</p>
<p>2. Start a trend of going to bed earlier every day of the week.  It will be easier to fall asleep the night before the first day of  school if your child has already established a habit of an earlier  bedtime.</p>
<p>3. Visit the school website. Spend some  time with your child reviewing the cafeteria menu, supply list, teacher  roster and anything and everything else that may catch your child’s  attention.</p>
<p>4. Make friends. If your child will be  new to the school, call the school office a few weeks ahead and request a  phone call or visit from a host family. Invite the family over for a  casual dinner or dessert so your child will know a familiar face before  the first day of school.</p>
<p>5. Don’t skip the open house. Attending  this informative event is essential in order to learn what will be  expected from you as parents, as well as your child, this upcoming year.</p>
<p>6. Get your child’s school clothes ready a week prior to the first day of school.  Whether your child wears a uniform or regular clothing, have their  clothes clean, ironed and ready to go. Every second counts on such a  hectic morning.</p>
<p>7. No loitering on the first day. Walk  your child to the door, help them locate their desk and lunch cubby,  kiss them on the cheek and say goodbye. Avoid the urge to circle back  and peer through the window to see how your child is doing. It makes it  much harder on your child to say goodbye the second time around.</p>
<p>8. Help your child find the restroom. It’s important for a child to know where key locations are and the bathroom is top on this list.</p>
<p>9. Make a special breakfast. Plan a  special &#8220;First Day of School&#8221; menu with your child and offer a selection  of healthy choices.  Set the table the night before and sit down  together to eat breakfast. Attempting to slow down the pace on a busy  morning will relax your child and give them time to ask you questions or  discuss fears.</p>
<p>10. Assure your child that everyone gets a little nervous on the first day of school.  Talk about what other children are probably feeling and how the feeling  will pass very soon.  Remind them that you will see them in the  afternoon and how you will look forward to hearing all about their day.</p>
<p>For more great advice on life, family, kids and marriage, visit <a href="http://www.hitchedmag.com" target="_blank">Hitched</a>.</p>
<p><em>Diane Gottsman, a nationally recognized etiquette expert, is the  owner of The Protocol School of Texas, a company specializing in  etiquette training for corporations, universities and individuals,  striving to polish their interpersonal skills. You can reach Diane at  877-490-1077 or <a href="http://www.protocolschooloftexas.com/" target="_blank">www.protocolschooloftexas.com</a>. You can also follow her on Twitter @: <a href="http://www.twitter.com/DianeGottsman" target="_blank">www.twitter.com/DianeGottsman</a>.</em></p>
<p><em>feature photo from <a href="http://yournewfavesong.com/2009/08/14/the-best-first-day-of-school-ever/" target="_blank">Your New Favorite Song</a></em></p>
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		<title>Medication you should NEVER give your Baby</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Aug 2010 08:06:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dena</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Babies are much more likely than adults to have adverse ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Babies are much more likely than adults to have adverse drug  reactions, so any medicine you put into that little body should be taken seriously, even prescription or over-the-counter (OTC)  medication and &#8220;herbal&#8221; medicines.</p>
<p>Until your baby is 6 months old, consult a doctor before giving her any  medication at all, advises Baby Center. Once she&#8217;s 3 months old you can give a carefully measured dose of <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_acetaminophen-dosage-chart_11886.bc">baby dose of acetaminophen</a>, but even that is not always necessary at the first sign of fussiness.</p>
<p>Here are 9 types of medication that you should<strong> <span style="text-decoration: underline;">never give your baby</span></strong>.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter" src="http://www.mydrdr.com/upload/4ad0346261120baby-having-medicine.jpg" alt="http://www.mydrdr.com/upload/4ad0346261120baby-having-medicine.jpg" width="251" height="165" /></p>
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<h3>Aspirin</h3>
<p>Aspirin can make a child susceptible to <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_reyes-syndrome_10901.bc">Reye&#8217;s syndrome</a> — a rare but potentially fatal illness. Aspirin  is sometimes referred to as &#8220;salicylate&#8221; or &#8220;acetylsalicylic acid,&#8221; and is sometimes found in &#8220;children&#8217;s medicine.&#8221;  Read  labels carefully, and ask your doctor or pharmacist if you&#8217;re not sure  whether a product is aspirin-free.</p>
<p>For fever and other discomfort, ask your doctor about giving your baby acetaminophen or ibuprofen.</p>
<h3>Over-the-counter cough and cold medicines</h3>
<p>Studies show that they don&#8217;t actually help  to soothe symptoms of kids this age.The  American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) advises against giving OTC cough  and cold medicines to babies.  And they can be harmful,  especially when a child mistakenly gets more than the recommended dose.</p>
<p>In  addition to side effects like drowsiness or sleeplessness, upset  stomach, and a rash or hives, a child can suffer serious effects such as  rapid heart rate, convulsions, and even death. Every year, 7,000  children under the age of 11 are treated in U.S. emergency rooms after  taking too much cough or cold medication.</p>
<p>If your baby&#8217;s <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_colds_78.bc">miserable with a cold</a>, you may want to try a humidifier or other <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_eleven-safe-home-remedies-to-soothe-your-childs-cold-and-flu_10014077.bc">home remedies</a>.</p>
<h3>Anti-nausea medications</h3>
<p>Don&#8217;t  give your baby an anti-nausea medication (prescription or OTC) unless  her doctor specifically recommends it. Most bouts of <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_vomiting_9955.bc">vomiting</a> are pretty short-lived, and babies and children usually handle them  just fine without any medication. In addition, anti-nausea medications  have risks and possible complications. (If your baby is vomiting and  begins to get <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_dehydration_11527.bc">dehydrated</a>, contact her doctor for advice on what to do.)</p>
<h3>Adult medications</h3>
<p>Giving  your baby a smaller dose of medicine meant for an adult is dangerous.  If the label doesn&#8217;t indicate an appropriate dose for a baby her size,  don&#8217;t give that medication to your baby.</p>
<h3>Any medication prescribed for someone else or for another condition</h3>
<p>Prescription  drugs intended for other people (like a sibling) or to treat other  illnesses may be ineffective or even dangerous when given to your baby.  Give her only medicine prescribed for her and her specific condition.</p>
<h3>Anything expired</h3>
<p>Toss  out medicines, prescription and OTC alike, as soon as they expire. Also  get rid of discolored or crumbly medicines — basically anything that  doesn&#8217;t look the way it did when you first bought it.</p>
<p>After the  use-by date, medications may no longer be effective and can even be  harmful. Don&#8217;t flush old drugs down the toilet, as they can contaminate  groundwater and end up in the drinking water supply. Find out <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/404_how-can-i-safely-dispose-of-expired-medication-with-kids-in_1471891.bc">how to safely dispose of expired medication</a>.</p>
<h3>Extra acetaminophen</h3>
<p>Some  medicines contain acetaminophen to help ease fever and pain, so be  careful not to give your baby an additional separate dose of  acetaminophen. If you&#8217;re not sure what&#8217;s in a particular medicine, don&#8217;t  give her <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/404_whats-the-difference-between-acetaminophen-and-ibuprofen_12376.bc">acetaminophen or ibuprofen</a> until you&#8217;ve first gotten the okay from your doctor or pharmacist.</p>
<h3>Chewables</h3>
<p>Chewable  tablets are a choking hazard for babies. If your baby&#8217;s eating solids  and you want to use a chewable tablet, crush it first, then put it in a  spoonful of soft food, like yogurt or applesauce. (Of course, you&#8217;ll  have to make sure your baby eats the entire spoonful to get the complete  dose.)</p>
<h3>Chinese herb ma huang (ephedra or ephedrine)</h3>
<p>Never  take or give your child the Chinese herb ma huang, also known as  ephedra or ephedrine. In adults this herbal decongestant has been linked  to high blood pressure, irregular heartbeat, seizures, heart attack,  and strokes.</p>
<p>Check with your doctor or an alternative medicine  practitioner before giving your child any herbal products. And always  let the doctor know about any herbal remedies your child is taking  before she prescribes a medication.</p>
<p>Many herbal remedies are  gentle and safe, but just because something is natural, or derived from a  plant, doesn&#8217;t mean it&#8217;s safe for your child. Herbal products can cause  allergic reactions, liver damage, and high blood pressure. In certain  doses or when combined with the wrong medications, they can be fatal.</p>
<p>Source: <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_nine-medicines-you-shouldnt-give-your-baby_10862.bc" target="_blank">Baby Center</a></p>
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		<title>Getting Kids Excited about a New Baby</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Aug 2010 21:22:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dena</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Younger toddlers won&#8217;t have a clue about a baby &#8220;growing ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Younger toddlers won&#8217;t have a clue about a baby &#8220;growing in your tummy.&#8221;   Because they can&#8217;t see it, they won&#8217;t be able to understand much of  the  explanation. Even when you are in your ninth month, big as a house,  your older  baby won&#8217;t take much notice of the bulge, except to realize  that it is harder  for her to sit on your lap.</p>
<p>Being pregnant with young children in tow can be both  challenging and exhausting. Involving your kids in your  pregnancy makes things a bit easier and is often fun. Here are some ways to involve everyone  in the &#8220;family pregnancy&#8221; and prepare them for life with a newborn.</p>
<h2>Arrange Baby Time</h2>
<p>Make to be around very young babies. This lets your children see what they look like, hear how they sound, observe you holding one  now and then, notice that they need comforting, and learn about nursing.</p>
<h2>Baby Talk</h2>
<p>Small kids: Once your belly is really big, eight  months maybe, talk about the new baby. Your toddler will feel more secure if you refer to it as &#8220;Suzy&#8217;s new baby.&#8221; Let her feel kicks,  help her talk or sing to baby, and stroke your belly.</p>
<p>Bigger kids: Tell older toddlers and preschoolers about the baby early on in the   pregnancy. The older the child, the sooner you can tell him; very young   children may be confused or disappointed when the baby fails to arrive  the next  day. With an older toddler or preschooler, try all of the  toddler suggestions  above, and in addition, use the diagrams in books  on birth to talk about how the  baby is growing, month by month. You&#8217;ll  be surprised by questions like &#8220;What  part did baby grow today, mom?&#8221;</p>
<h2>Read Books about Babies</h2>
<p>Show her simple children&#8217;s books about new babies. Show pictures of  when she was a tiny baby and tell her about all the things you did for her. Say  things like &#8220;Mommies hold tiny babies a lot because they need that.&#8221;</p>
<h2>Explain Your  Moods</h2>
<p>Depending on the age and level of understanding, tell your child why  you are feeling so tired, grouchy, short-fused, impatient<strong>,</strong> and whatever else  you feel while pregnant: You might say, &#8220;Baby needs a lot of energy to grow, and  that&#8217;s why mom is tired and sleeps a lot&#8230;&#8221; Or, &#8220;The hormones baby needs to  grow make mommy feel funny&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<h2>Talk about the  Future</h2>
<p>For example, let them know babies  cry (some cry a lot) and they like it when you talk to them and make funny  faces. Explain to them &#8220;You can help me change the diaper, bathe baby and dress  baby. Babies can&#8217;t do anything for themselves for a long time, and they can&#8217;t  play games until they grow bigger. They need to be held a whole lot, just like I  held you when you were little.&#8221;</p>
<h2><strong>Hands on Demo</strong></h2>
<p>Usually by the fifth or sixth month, older  children can feel their baby brother or sister move. During the time of the day when your baby moves the most, sit down and invite  your children to feel the show. Let them guess which body part they are feeling.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a rel="shadowbox[post-977];player=img;" href="http://gazette.jhu.edu/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/istock_000003970829small.jpg"><img class="aligncenter" title="stock image" src="http://gazette.jhu.edu/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/istock_000003970829small-600x399.jpg" alt="Stock photo" width="272" height="180" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em>image: <a href="http://gazette.jhu.edu/2009/07/20/ethicists-include-pregnant-women-in-kids%E2%80%99-study/" target="_blank">The Johns Hopkins Gazette</a></em></p>
<h2><strong>Baby Bonding</strong></h2>
<p>Invite your children to talk to and about  the baby. If you already know the gender and have chosen a name, you can  encourage them to use it when referring to the baby. Or you can welcome the baby  nicknames your child invents. Babies can hear around 23 weeks of age, so this is  a good time for the kids to start talking to the baby so he or she will get to  know them. After about three months of this, their voices will be very familiar  to the baby still in utero, and bonding will already be under way. Studies show  that babies tend to turn toward voices they recognize right after birth.</p>
<h2><strong>Little Helping Hands</strong></h2>
<p><strong> </strong> Realize that it&#8217;s impossible to give other  family members the same degree of attention they are used to while you&#8217;re  pregnant. Sooner or later the children will realize that they must share mom  with another tiny taker in the family. Fortunately, pregnancy provides you with  plenty of time to prepare your older children for what life will be like after  the baby arrives. Getting them used to helping you while baby brother or sister  is still inside is actually another good tool for bonding. The children will  have invested their time and energy already even before baby comes, and the baby  will have more personal value to them.</p>
<p>Adapted from <a href="http://askdrsears.com/html/1/T010504.asp" target="_blank">10 WAYS TO INVOLVE CHILDREN WITH YOUR PREGNANCY</a></p>
<p>feature image: <a href="http://gazette.jhu.edu/2009/07/20/ethicists-include-pregnant-women-in-kids%E2%80%99-study/" target="_blank">The Johns Hopkins Gazette</a></p>
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		<title>Raising a Successful Child: Deonte Bridges’ Mother Speaks</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jul 2010 15:06:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dena</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You may have heard about Deonte Bridges&#8217; life story or ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You may have heard about Deonte Bridges&#8217; life story or watched his moving and inspiring valedictorian speech that&#8217;s been circulating around the web (if not, see below, it&#8217;s worth the 5 minutes!).  Growing up as an African American in a neighborhood surrounded by drugs, guns and violence, he experienced one challenge after another, including being robbed at gunpoint, his mother&#8217;s diagnosis of leukemia, and the death of a brother.</p>
<p>But he rose above it all, and in his speech expressed his gratitude to God and his family, and payed tribute to his own inner strength, values, and drive to succeed: &#8220;to do what is necessary&#8230; not popular.&#8221;</p>
<p>So what&#8217;s the secret of his success?  How did he rise above temptation, trial, and tragedy to become the first male, African American valedictorian of Booker T. Washington High, in over a decade?</p>
<p><a href="http://www.momlogic.com/2010/07/youtube_sensation_deonte_bridges_mom_speaks_out_paris_hardaway.php" target="_blank">Mom Logic</a> went straight to the source: his proud mother, Paris Hardaway.  When asked what advice she would give to other moms, this is what she said:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">&#8220;I would tell them to continue to support and love their kids.  Let them  know that if nobody else has their back, you do.  Encourage them in any  way, form or fashion.  Say good things to them no matter what the  outside world says. Every day is a fight, so stay in the fight and focus  on goals and dreams.  You&#8217;re there with them and you want them to see  they can accomplish all they desire to do.&#8221;</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know if people reading this realize how very wise she is, but I&#8217;m awed by her words- so simple and yet so powerful. What I hear her saying is that in order for a child to succeed, he needs to know he is capable of success. He needs to know that someone believes in him, and only then can he believe in himself. We as parents should always remember that it is we who build our children&#8217;s self esteem and give them confidence to succeed in life.</p>
<p>We salute Ms. Hardaway, and wish her son Deonte success in every way!</p>
<div>Read more:? ??<a onclick="s_objectID=&quot;http://www.momlogic.com/2010/07/youtube_sensation_deonte_bridges_mom_speaks_out_paris_hardaway.ph_2&quot;;return  this.s_oc?this.s_oc(e):true" href="http://www.momlogic.com/2010/07/youtube_sensation_deonte_bridges_mom_speaks_out_paris_hardaway.php">YouTube  Sensation Deonte Bridges&#8217; Mom Speaks Out</a></div>
<div>Watch Deonte&#8217;s powerful valedictorian speech:</div>
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		<title>Things No One Told You About Having a Baby</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jul 2010 08:32:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dena</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are a lot of things you DO know about having a baby. You will be tired. You will struggle to loose your baby weight. You will change lots of diapers and walk around with spit-up on your shoulder. You will love your baby more than anything else in the whole world. But there are some things that may come as a complete shock and no one has thought to prepare you for it!</p>
<p>That&#8217;s where we, oh-so-graciously, come in, so don&#8217;t say we didn&#8217;t warn you!  Remember, parenthood is not for the faint of heart, but it will completely change your life for the better. Adapted from iVillage&#8217;s <a href="http://www.ivillage.com/13-things-no-one-told-you-about-having-baby-0/6-b-215195#content" target="_blank">13 Things No One Told You About Having a Baby</a>.</p>
<h3><strong>The world is suddenly a Scary Place to bring up children<br />
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<p>Second-hand smoke, deadly chemicals in your baby shampoo, vaccines that may cause autism, BPA-leaching baby bottles,  lead in teething toys, and germs lurking everywhere. It may seem completely overwhelming and terrifying at first. But eventually you realize that you can&#8217;t protect your child from everything&#8230; and what doesn&#8217;t kill &#8216;em will just make &#8216;em stronger!</p>
<h3>You are no longer the star of the show</h3>
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<p>When you were single, you were the life of the party. On your wedding day, you were the most beautiful woman in the world. When you were pregnant, complete strangers gave up  their seats for you and asked how you’re feeling. But when you have a baby, people will look right through you and focus ALL attention on that red-faced, dribbling, sweet little thing and barely notice that you&#8217;re there. And you know what? You won&#8217;t care a single bit!</p>
<h3>You Will Never Look the Same in a Bathing Suit</h3>
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<p>No one escapes pregnancy unscathed. You  will have one or more of the following, even if you manage to loose all your baby weight: stretch marks, a wider derriere, spider veins, sagging breasts (after you stop breastfeeding) a squishy tummy, or at best, a small paunch.  The  consolation is that precious bundle of joy that somehow makes it all worthwhile&#8230; OK, not <em>all </em>the time. Some advice: Throw the bikini in away and buy a cute one-piece. Because even with the stretch marks, you are beautiful.</p>
<h3>You will feel intense jealousy of the &#8220;Perfect Moms&#8221; out there</h3>
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<p>Before you have a baby it&#8217;s easy to imagine that <em>you </em>will be the Perfect Mom. Then comes the reality check. The <em>real </em>Perfect Mom always look put-together (not a trace of spit up or sweaty hair), their babies never cry, and they have time for yoga class and dinner out with the hubby.   Perfect Mom is out-and-about with all the latest and greatest baby products, shops at the organic farmer&#8217;s market, and has lost all her baby weight. Luckily for all of us, Perfect Mom is a myth.  She too has her bad days. And,  believe it or not, there might be other moms out there looking at <em>you </em>with envious disgust.</p>
<h3>Breastfeeding is the one of the Hardest Things you will ever try to Master</h3>
<div>For something that&#8217;s supposed to come naturally, breastfeeding can be full of heartache. There are problems latching on, sore, bleeding nipples, blocked ducts and  breast infections, not to mention the complete failure you&#8217;ll feel like if you can’t feed your own  child naturally. Getting a good lactation consultant is key for some, others can get the hang of it with some help from a Google search (I did!). And if you need to bottle feed for any reason, remember that the ability to nurse your baby is not the one and only measure of  being a  good mom!</div>
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<h3>You Will Never Leave the House On Time</h3>
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<p>As a rule, your baby will either spit up all over his&#8211; and probably your&#8211; outfit or have a poop explosion just as you  are walking out the door. Or you will suddenly remember that you haven&#8217;t fed him yet. Or you will finally be off on your way only to realize that you left the diaper bag at home. Babies are notorious for messing  with your schedule, and you&#8217;ll learn that it <em>will </em>take all morning to prepare yourself for an outing. And even then, you may still be late.</p>
<h3>People Will Ask if You Need Help—And it will be Hard to Say &#8220;YES!&#8221;</h3>
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<p>If you are like me, you absolutely hate to ask others to do anything  for you. For one thing, you don&#8217;t want to put them out of their way. And for another, well let&#8217;s face it, no one is quite as competent as you are.  But now is the time to adjust your thinking and let others step it.  Your friends and  loved ones will feel good helping, and you <em>do </em>need the assistance (and a nap). You may be worried that they don&#8217;t know the first thing about burping babies or putting them down for a nap, but I assure you, they&#8217;ll manage just fine!</p>
<h3>You Will Crave the Luxury of Being Alone</h3>
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<p>You love your baby and your husband more than anything. You feel so  blessed to have them in your life. And you are so sick of both of them! This is one more reason why you need to say &#8220;Yes&#8221; when your sister offers to take baby to the park. This is why your showers are twice as long as they used to be, since Daddy has no choice but to take care of the baby. Finding a little bit of time alone is key to your sanity. Chances are you won’t be going to the theater or getting luxurious  massages, but even half an hour to sip a latte and read a book will be refreshing.</p>
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		<title>10 Reasons Babies Cry</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are many reasons your baby cries. Sometimes it&#8217;s hard to figure out what it is, and you conclude that she&#8217;s just &#8220;crying for no reason!&#8221; But we believe that happy, content, comfortable babies just don&#8217;t cry, so if she&#8217;s bawling&#8211; or even just whimpering&#8211; there&#8217;s usually a good reason.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a checklist to help you figure out what it could be:</p>
<h3>1. Hungry</h3>
<p>When my husband is holding a fussy baby, it&#8217;s the first thing he thinks of! &#8220;Here honey, he must be hungry!&#8221; Well, sometimes they are and sometimes they aren&#8217;t, but it&#8217;s good to recognize the signs of hunger so can feed your baby <em>before </em>the crying stage.</p>
<p>In newborns, watch for fussing, smacking of lips, rooting (a newborn  reflex that causes babies to turn toward your hand when you  stroke their cheek), and putting  their hands to their mouth.</p>
<p>I find that a good rule is to feed my baby every time he wakes up from a nap. This way, the next time he starts fussing, I know it&#8217;s because he&#8217;s tired (usually) and ready for a nap&#8211; not hungry. Trying to feed a baby when there&#8217;s something else bothering him is usually futile and ends up frustrating you <em>and</em> baby!</p>
<h3>2. Dirty diaper</h3>
<p>It&#8217;s funny, but some babies really can&#8217;t stand being dirty&#8211; or even wet. My babies are like that. Then there are others who just don&#8217;t seem to mind at all.  Either way, this problem is easy to  check and fix!</p>
<h3>3. Tired</h3>
<p>Have you ever wondered why babies just don&#8217;t go to sleep on their own? After all, we&#8217;d give anything to be able to stop, drop, and nap any time we felt sleepy!  Instead, babies tend to fuss and cry when they get tired, and it just gets worse the more over-tired they get. Try to catch your baby at the first yawn and do whatever it is you do (rock, pat, sing) to get her to sleep.</p>
<h3>4. Needs to  burp</h3>
<p>You don&#8217;t have to burp baby after every feeding, but it might be a good idea. Sometimes, a good burp is all he needs. Babies  swallow air when  they breastfeed or suck from a bottle, especially if they aren&#8217;t feeding peacefully for some reason. And we all know that having air in our tummies is not a pleasant feeling!</p>
<h3>5. Wants attention</h3>
<p>You fed, burped, and changed your baby&#8217;s diaper. It&#8217;s not nap time yet. So why is he fussing?  He wants some attention, of course! Babies get bored too, and need stimulation, talking to, and cuddling. They like  to see your face, hear your voice, and just be held close.</p>
<p>There is no such thing as &#8220;spoiling&#8221; your baby, or holding him &#8220;too much.&#8221; Babies thrive on love and being close to their parents. But if your arms need a break (and you need to get the housework done), try wearing  your baby in a carrier or sling.</p>
<h3>6. Tummy-ache &amp; Colic</h3>
<p>If your baby is crying a lot, tummy  troubles  associated with gas might be the problem.  <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_colic-the-basics_77.bc">Babycenter</a> defines colic as inconsolable crying for at least three hours a day, at   least three days a week, at least three weeks in a row. For colic help, read <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_colic-how-to-cope_1369745.bc">more   than 20 strategies for soothing a colicky baby</a>.</p>
<p>Even if your   baby isn&#8217;t colicky, an  occasional  bout of gas pain can make him miserable. If you think that may be the culprit, try  putting him on  his back, and pressing his legs up toward his tummy; or move his legs in a  gentle bicycling  motion.</p>
<h3>7. Too hot or cold</h3>
<p>Newborns like to be warm and cozy — but not  too warm. The basic rule is, a small baby is comfortable wearing one more  layer than  you would need to be comfortable. To test if your baby is too hot, feel the back of his neck, under his clothes. If he feels overheated and sweaty, you need to remove a layer!</p>
<p>If baby is too cold, that might make him fussy as well. A draft or a cold wipe to the bottom might tick him off!</p>
<h3>8. Something Hurts</h3>
<p>There are all sorts of other &#8220;little&#8221; discomforts your baby might be enduring. The infamous hair wrapped around a tiny toe or finger might be cutting off  circulation&#8211; <em>not </em>comfortable! Some babies are extra sensitive to things  like scratchy fabric or clothing  tags.</p>
<p>Then again, baby might be teething!  To check if that&#8217;s the reason for the crying,  try feeling his gums with your finger. On  average, the first tooth breaks through between 4 and 7 months, but it  can happen earlier. Find out more about <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_teething_11243.bc">teething  and how to ease the pain</a>.</p>
<h3>9. Too much stimulation</h3>
<p>Babies learn a lot from the  world around them, but if there&#8217;s too much going on for too long, they may have a hard time processing it all.  If  the commotion, the noise, the blur of faces is too overwhelming, baby may have a meltdown.  See if you can retreat to a quieter spot  and try soothing him until he&#8217;s calm again (most likely a nap is in order, too)!</p>
<h3>10. Not feeling well</h3>
<p>If your baby is sick, you may notice that his &#8220;sick cry&#8221; is distinct from his &#8220;normal&#8221; crying. If your baby&#8217;s crying  &#8220;just  doesn&#8217;t sound right,&#8221; trust your instincts and call or see a  doctor.  He  could be coming down with  something. You may want to check   his temperature  and be alert for  other <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_when-to-call-the-doctor_9986.bc">signs   of illness</a>.</p>
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		<title>Home-made Playdough: Easy, Cheap, and Fun!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jun 2010 08:14:29 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My kids just love playdough, and I like it because it provides hours of wholesome entertainment.  They like rolling it, making shapes, cutting it with scissors, smearing it on the wall, even tasting it. The problem with playdough (aside from the little crumbs that seem to get everywhere) is that all too soon it&#8217;s dried out or used up, and it&#8217;s time to go out and buy more.</p>
<p>While buying play-doh is not terribly expensive (just a few dollars for 4 colors), it does seem slightly wasteful to keep dishing out money for something that you could so easily make at home. Besides, your kids will love making their own playdough, and creating their own colors too. Plus, if your toddler decides to take a bite of that playdough pizza you just made, the ingredients are perfectly safe (although not too tasty)!</p>
<p>This easy recipe is from <a href="http://www.ivillage.com/what-youll-need-how-make-playdough/6-b-212109#content" target="_blank">iVillage</a>. We tried it at home yesterday and it worked perfectly! (Our food-coloring was kind of weak, so see if you can pick up some real strong colors next time you go to the grocery store! But we do have some nice pastel-colored playdough now.)</p>
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<p><strong>Ingredients:</strong></p>
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<li>½ cup salt</li>
<li>½ cup water</li>
<li>1 cup flour</li>
<li>food coloring</li>
<li>glitter (optional)</li>
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<div><strong>Directions:</strong></div>
<div>1. Mix together the salt, flour, and water in a big bowl. The dough is ready when it has a non-sticky, firmer-than-mushy consistency.</div>
<div>2. If it’s too sticky, add some flour and salt.  If its too firm, add  some water.</div>
<div>3. Divide the dough into as many portions as you like. Add food coloring (a few drops should be enough) and knead it in. You can use this as an opportunity to teach your kids about mixing colors (red + yellow = orange)! Mix in glitter too, if you like.</div>
<div>4. Store the dough in a plastic container or sealable bag</div>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jun 2010 21:23:11 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) is a scary thing for parents of babies to think about. The  name itself points to the reason it&#8217;s so frighting&#8211;  for some time it&#8217;s been a great mystery that no one knew the real answer to. SIDS is the leading cause of death in  infants between one month and one year of age. In the United States, around 3,000 babies  die from SIDS each year.  These infants are generally healthy babies, who showed no signs of suffering, abuse, or illness. They seem to just die &#8220;peacefully&#8221; in their sleep.</p>
<h2>What You Can Do to Prevent SIDS</h2>
<p>Despite the widespread believe that SIDS is a baffling and unpredictable tragedy, there are ways you can significantly protect your baby. One thing that has been proven is that babies who sleep on their backs are less likely to die of SIDS than babies who sleep on their stomachs.  And so the &#8220;Back to Sleep&#8221; program was born in 1992, when the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) began warning parents of babies under 1 year old never to let their infants sleep on their stomachs. Since then, the rate of SIDS has dropped by over 50%.  In addition to this, <a href="http://askdrsears.com/html/10/t102100.asp" target="_blank">Dr. Sears</a> explains that there  is a combination of many  factors that lead to death:  immature  development of cardio-respiratory control mechanisms, defective   arousability from sleep in response to breathing difficulties, medical   conditions that compromise breathing, and unsafe sleeping practices.</p>
<p>The main risk  factors for SIDS are:</p>
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<li>Prematurity or low birth-weight</li>
<li>Smoking or taking illegal drugs during pregnancy</li>
<li>Smoking around baby after birth</li>
<li>Putting baby to sleep on their stomach</li>
<li>Infants who are not breastfeeding</li>
<li>Having little or no prenatal care</li>
<li>Unsafe sleeping environment</li>
<li>Overheating from excessive sleepwear and bedding</li>
<li>There is no correlation between immunizations and SIDS.</li>
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<p>Therefore, parents should follow the AAP recommendations for reducing the risk of SIDS:</p>
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<li>Place your baby on a firm mattress to sleep.</li>
<li>Do not put your baby to sleep on a pillow,  waterbed, sheepskin, couch, chair, or other soft surface.</li>
<li>To prevent  rebreathing (where the baby inhales the same air he just exhaled), do not put blankets, comforters, stuffed toys, or pillows  near the baby.</li>
<li>Make sure your baby does not get too warm while sleeping. A good temperature is one where an adult would be comfortable in a  short-sleeve shirt. Do not over-bundle or over-swaddle your baby.</li>
<li>Do not smoke, drink, or use drugs while pregnant and do not expose  your baby to secondhand smoke. Exposure to secondhand smoke doubles a baby&#8217;s  risk of SIDS, while a mother who smoked during  pregnancy triples the risk.</li>
<li>Receive early and regular prenatal care.</li>
<li>Make sure your baby has well-baby checkups regularly.</li>
<li>Breastfeed, if possible. There is some evidence that breastfeeding  may help decrease the incidence of SIDS.</li>
<li>If your baby has GERD (reflux), be sure to follow your doctor&#8217;s guidelines on  feeding and sleep positions.</li>
<li>Put your baby to sleep with a pacifier during the first year of  life. If your baby rejects the pacifier, don&#8217;t force it. Pacifiers have  been linked with lower risk of SIDS.</li>
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<h2>Attachment Parenting</h2>
<p>Dr. Sears also advocates a style of caretaking called Attachment Parenting. In addition to many benefits for you and your baby, Attachment Parenting greatly reduces the odds of your baby succumbing to SIDS. For more information, read these worthwhile articles:</p>
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<li><a href="http://askdrsears.com/html/10/T131000.asp">4 Ways Attachment  Parenting can Reduce  the Risk of SIDS</a></li>
<li><a href="http://askdrsears.com/html/10/T102100.asp#T102104">3 Reasons  Babywearing reduces SIDS</a>)</li>
<li><a href="http://askdrsears.com/html/10/t102100.asp#T102103">8 Reasons  Breastfeeding  Reduces SIDS</a></li>
<li><a href="http://askdrsears.com/html/10/T071006.asp">Co-sleeping  SIDS</a></li>
<li><a href="http://askdrsears.com/html/10/t102100.asp#T102106">Beware of  Sleep Trainers</a></li>
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<h2>When Stomach Sleeping is OK</h2>
<p>Having said all that, for some babies, it is actually recommended that they sleep on their stomachs.</p>
<p><strong>Premature babies</strong> or babies with breathing difficulties are put to sleep on their tummies, since the still  partially  collapsed lungs of some prematures tend to expand better when  front-sleeping.</p>
<p>If an infant has <strong>gastroesophageal reflux</strong>, it is also recommended that  he sleep tummy down, at least for two hours after a  feeding.  Some babies sleeping on their tummies also seemed to settle better and  spit- up less after feeding.</p>
<p><strong>Listen to Your Baby: </strong> If your baby is just not content to sleep on his back, is it OK to put him to sleep on his stomach?  Well, because of the new research it is best to try to get baby  accustomed  to sleeping on her back or side. Newborn babies tend to get in the habit  of  sleeping the way they are first put down.  Nevertheless, <a href="http://askdrsears.com/html/10/t102100.asp" target="_blank">Dr. Sears</a> says that unless advised to the contrary  by your doctor, <strong>it is best to let your baby sleep in a position she  prefers.</strong> This means that if your  baby doesn&#8217;t settle down, or stay asleep on her back or side, front sleeping is fine.  Newborn babies DO tend to prefer their tummies. &#8220;If a baby repeatedly doesn&#8217;t settle in a certain sleeping  position, this  may be a clue that this position may not be the safest for this  individual baby.  This is just one example of how babies often try to tell us what is in  their  best interest. Parents should not be afraid to listen.&#8221;</p>
<p>Just be sure to follow all the safety precautions listed above, such as placing baby on a firm mattress, not overheating the room, etc.</p>
<h2>Another Possible Cause of SIDS</h2>
<p>Sleep position may be important, but there is some evidence that SIDS may be related to the fire retardants in the baby&#8217;s mattress.  The reason this may be a culprit in SIDS is that an ordinarily harmless fungus (Scopulariopsis brevicaulis) consumes the chemicals used in the plasticized mattress cover. Baby&#8217;s drool, vomit, urine, and perspiration, combined with body heat, enable the fungus to grow rapidly.  When this occurs, neurotoxic gases are emitted. If baby breathes a significant amount of these odorless gases for a prolonged time, the central nervous system can shut down, causing death.</p>
<p>Using a mattress pad that is NOT made from polyvinyl chloride (PVC) would eliminate this tragedy.  For more information, read <a href="http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2003/03/19/sids-part-three.aspx" target="_blank">Is sleep position really important in SIDS?</a> Also, read about <a href="http://www.prevent-sids.org/" target="_blank">mattress wrapping</a>, which means wrapping baby&#8217;s mattress in  a polyethylene cover, to prevent your infant from breathing the gases. You can also look into an <strong>organic crib mattress</strong>, made from all-natural fibers which have not be treated with flame-retarding chemicals.</p>
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		<title>Sales on Stylish, Sensible Nursing Cover-ups</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jun 2010 19:22:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dena</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Whether or not it&#8217;s OK to nurse in public seems ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whether or not it&#8217;s OK to nurse in public seems to be debatable for some people, but I see nothing wrong with it&#8211; as long as you are covered up. Moms with nursing babies need to get out of the house, too, and when you are your baby&#8217;s sole source of food, you simply don&#8217;t have a choice NOT to breastfeed when the need arises.</p>
<p>I also don&#8217;t think Mom&#8217;s should have to duck into the nearest bathroom when baby gets hungry. Besides for the fact that it&#8217;s just plain yucky and often uncomfortable, the fact is that sometimes a private spot is just not available! So that&#8217;s why you may want to invest in a snazzy little cover-up to give you a bit of privacy when you&#8217;re nursing on the go.  It will even come in handy at home, when you have company and don&#8217;t want to miss any of the action!</p>
<h2><a href="http://www.uddercovers.com/" target="_blank"><strong>Udder Covers</strong></a></h2>
<p>Great for the stylish cow&#8211;I mean woman!<br />
<img src="https://www.uddercovers.com/images/bullet.jpg" alt="" width="5" height="8" /> Rigid neckline  gives you direct eye contact with baby.<br />
<img src="https://www.uddercovers.com/images/bullet.jpg" alt="" width="5" height="8" /> Made  of 100% breathable cotton.<br />
<img src="https://www.uddercovers.com/images/bullet.jpg" alt="" width="5" height="8" /> Stainless steel  d-rings allow fully adjustable neckline.<br />
<img src="https://www.uddercovers.com/images/bullet.jpg" alt="" width="5" height="8" /> Machine washable.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">YOU CAN GET ONE FREE (just pay shipping)</span> if you enter the code &#8220;BACKORDER&#8221; when ordering! I don&#8217;t know how long this will last, so if you want one, grab it now!</p>
<p>Get yours at <a href="http://www.uddercovers.com/" target="_blank">uddercovers.com </a></p>
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<h2><a href="http://www.mom4life.com/catalog.php?item=480" target="_blank">Under Wraps Nursing Poncho</a></h2>
<p>This is a great thing if you want all-around coverage!</p>
<ul>
<li><span style="color: #000000;">Uniquely  designed to be worn during pregnancy, while breastfeeding or just  because.<br />
</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #000000;">Wear it while nursing or even as a  fashion piece.</span></li>
<li><span style="color: #000000;">Neck line design allows mom to latch baby easily without exposing anything!</span></li>
</ul>
<p><a href="http://www.mom4life.com/catalog.php?item=480" target="_blank">Get yours here</a> for $39.99.</p>
<p><img src="http://www.mom4life.com/pcimages/vlmain.jpg" border="0" alt="Under Wraps Nursing Poncho ™ by Victoria Laurin  &amp; Baby-Breastfeeding, nursing cover, nursing wrap, nursing cover  up" width="448" height="218" /></p>
<h2><a href="http://shop.bebeaulait.com/bogo-2010" target="_blank">Hooter Hiders</a></h2>
<p>If the name alone is not enough to make you want one, maybe the <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="color: #000000;"><a href="http://shop.bebeaulait.com/bogo-2010" target="_blank"><strong>buy-one-get-one-free</strong></a> offer will (good until June 28)!</span></span></p>
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<h2><a href="http://www.headrushdesign.com/index.php" target="_blank">Head Rush Nursing Covers</a></h2>
<p>Breastfeeding in public  can now be a pleasant experience with these lightweight, cotton, nursing  cover. Plus, you get <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.headrushdesign.com/" target="_blank">$10 off</a> their Spring Styles!</strong></span></p>
<ul>
<li>Complete 360-degree coverage</li>
<li>Front pockets for pacifiers, nursing pads, etc.</li>
<li>Lace panel in front for ventilation and eye contact.</li>
<li>Burp cloth and drawstring bag included.</li>
<li>Can be used as a stroller canopy and baby blanket!</li>
<li>100% cotton and machine washable.</li>
</ul>
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		<title>Games to Play to Boost Baby&#8217;s Development</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jun 2010 07:09:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dena</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[From birth to 3 months, there isn't much your baby can do to entertain himself. But as you know, that little guy loves attention and sometimes he just seems bored! What can you do that will keep him happy and stimulated between naps, feeding, and diaper changes?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Age: Birth to 3 months</h3>
<p>At this stage, there isn&#8217;t much your baby can do to entertain himself. But as you know, that little guy loves attention and sometimes he just seems bored! What can you do that will keep him happy and stimulated between naps, feeding, and diaper changes?</p>
<p><a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_20-fun-silly-development-boosting-games-to-play-with-your-ba_1479310.bc?showAll=true" target="_blank">Baby Center</a> suggests that your best chance of doing this is to engage  your baby&#8217;s senses: touch, sight (remember, your baby is still <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_developmental-milestones-sight_6508.bc">very nearsighted</a>), smell, and hearing. If your newborn doesn&#8217;t seem to respond much, be patient. Keep trying, or wait until he seems more alert and  responsive.</p>
<p>Here are some fun games to try!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter" src="http://cdn.sheknows.com/articles/mother-with-laughing-baby.jpg" alt="Mother with Laughing Baby" width="249" height="165" /></p>
<p><strong>Shall we Dance?</strong><br />
Close the curtains so the neighbors won&#8217;t  see! Then put on some music, grab the baby (or put him in a sling) and start dancing! For a newborn you may want to start off with some gentle swaying and gliding, but as he gets bigger he&#8217;ll get a kick out of bouncing around and being swung through the air. (Just don&#8217;t shake the baby!) If your arms get tired, put baby down we he can see you and keep dancing!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_20-fun-silly-development-boosting-games-to-play-with-your-ba_1479310.bc?showAll=true" target="_blank">Baby  Center Tip</a>: Silly  exaggerated movements like jazz hands or shaking your butt are  particularly funny to babies.</p>
<p><strong>What does THAT do?<br />
</strong></p>
<p>Gather up some interesting objects and take a seat next to your baby. Show them what it is, how it feels, what it does, what sounds it makes, etc. You can show them books too, but at this age they&#8217;re not really going to &#8220;get it.&#8221;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_20-fun-silly-development-boosting-games-to-play-with-your-ba_1479310.bc?showAll=true" target="_blank">Baby  Center Tip</a>: Any object in the house  that won&#8217;t poison, electrocute, or otherwise  hurt him is fair game. Babies love egg beaters, spoons, wire whisks, spatulas, books and   magazines with pictures, bottles of shampoo or conditioner (don&#8217;t leave   your baby alone with these!), record albums, colorful fabrics or   clothes, fruits and vegetables, and so on.</p>
<p><strong>Empty the Closet</strong><br />
The time will come when it&#8217;s the baby emptying your closet, but for now, you decide what comes out for show-and-tell!  Your baby will enjoy seeing and feeling all the bright, slinky, soft, or fuzzy clothing.  Run silky fabrics  over his face and hands, or lay something  woolly down on the floor and  put him on top of it to explore.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_20-fun-silly-development-boosting-games-to-play-with-your-ba_1479310.bc?showAll=true" target="_blank">Baby  Center Tip</a>: In a few months, your baby will want  to run his hands over anything beaded, embroidered, or otherwise  embellished. But for now, he may just be content to gaze in wonder.</p>
<p><strong>Oooh, look at That!</strong><br />
The simplest stuff around your house can keep your baby happy for hours. Here are three ideas  to start you off:</p>
<ul>
<li>Make a mobile by tying ribbons, fabric, or other  interesting streamers onto a hanger and dangle them gently in front of your baby&#8217;s face.</li>
<li>Take a floaty scarf and fling  it into the air, letting it settle on  your baby&#8217;s head.</li>
<li>Take an elastic string and tie a toy to the end of it. Bound it up and down saying &#8220;Boing, boing!&#8221;</li>
</ul>
<p><a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_20-fun-silly-development-boosting-games-to-play-with-your-ba_1479310.bc?showAll=true" target="_blank">Baby  Center Tip</a>: Remember, never leave your baby alone with  strings or ribbons that could encircle his neck or that he could get  into his mouth.</p>
<p><strong>The Diva Within</strong><br />
Baby&#8217;s love to hear their mommy&#8217;s (or daddy&#8217;s) voice. Even as a newborn, you may see your baby calm down when you speak, sing, or coo. Your baby  may like anything you sing, but there are some classics you  should get to know, like &#8220;Itsy Bitsy Spider,&#8221; and songs with hand movements — &#8220;The Wheels on the Bus,&#8221; &#8220;Row, Row, Row Your Boat,&#8221; &#8220;Head,  Shoulders, Knees, and Toes,&#8221; and &#8220;Patty-Cake,&#8221; to name a few.  Songs with silly  sounds or animal noises in them are fun too, like &#8220;Old McDoanld Had a Farm,&#8221; &#8220;Witch Doctor,&#8221;  or &#8220;How Much Is  That Doggie in the Window?&#8221; (If you  don&#8217;t remember the words to these song, try an Internet search. )</p>
<p>Try singing a song in different voices and pitches, use a  hand puppet, anything that seems to amuse your baby. You can eve make up your own songs!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_20-fun-silly-development-boosting-games-to-play-with-your-ba_1479310.bc?showAll=true" target="_blank">Baby  Center Tip</a>: You may have a terrible voice — but your kid doesn&#8217;t know it! Now&#8217;s the  time to sing at volume 10, so set free that opera voice inside you.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Have fun!</strong></p>
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